Do You Love Me?

“Do you love me? Want to carry on? Can we trust each other? If yes, let the rest go to hell”

It was part of sms my friend got from his bf. The messages make concise the whole story. Touching and romantic, because I knew her bf really meant that. It’s not that perfect, but they have been in love for 5 years, packed with mostly ups and some insignificant downs, and still maintain properly. Well, again, it’s really not that perfect. I mean things outside their relationship. But the love itself is just right. So let’s restrict this topic only to the love.

Talking about love is always great, even when you can’t define exactly what love is. My friend, her long time bf loves her the way she is, with her hard-to-deal-with stubbornness and selfishness. He understands when she makes big mistakes, really loving.

There’s place where you’ll feel very safe when you’re loved unconditionally. Quoted from other post, “If he says he loves you, you will feel comfortable to be yourself in front of him, and you will feel completed instead of loaded”.

If he loves you, he won’t demand you to change in favor of him.

If he loves you, he won’t load you with the criteria of his dream figure.

If he loves you, he won’t let you go effortlessly.

If he says he loves you, wait until you are both at odds to see how far he would strive.

If you love each other, you won’t have to give much effort to keep up your relationship, because you’re doing it together.

Love takes sacrifices, but not too much until you lose yourself.

Love Regards