A Man or a Boy

Derived from the ads in previous post, I would like to add some other characteristics of a man :

5.   A man cares for people around him sincerely, never overact. He is also polite and respectful. Boys, they focus on themselves, do big talk to get attention, put on a lot of accessories and believe they look cool.

6.   A man is smart and responsible. Boys only have tiny knowledge, not even enough to make their own argument. They don’t know what responsibility means, because they simply live for the day.

7.  A man sets priorities in each phase of life. He knows the right time to learn, to work, to have fun, to step back and fix, and to stop. He does things seriously and thinks strategically. While boys don’t care for what they should be doing, they care for following desires.

8.   A man knows his strengths and weaknesses, never worried because he knows how to make good use of them. They aren’t worried of doing mistakes, instead they learn. Boys try hard to veil weaknesses, never learn how to be better.

9.   A man knows how to love, when to make commitment, and stick to that. Boys are just players, watching lust comes and disappears, just to end with nothing.

We all need a man, not a boy who thinks he can. A man will make you feel secure, either with his love or promise. It might take some trial and error to find him, but one day you will stop searching and feel so grateful. You can only sense after you spend enough time with them, though sometimes outside look can be convincing enough. If he says he loves you, you will feel comfortable to be yourself in front of him, and you will feel completed instead of loaded.